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7 habits of genuinely charming people

1. They always show you that they are glad to meet you.

Genuinely charming people are always glad to meet you and they are not afraid to show you that.They make eyecontact, they smile, they nod their head when you talk and they are really interested in what you are saying.

2. They are not afraid of showing a little vulnerability.

They don’t compete with anyone, only themselves. That’s why they are not afraid of admitting that they are not perfect, that they have flaws and things they can work on, just like anybody else.

3. They search for agreement instead of contradiction.

Charming people usually don’t like to disagree, and they respect options that are different from theirs. They like to give constructive feedback and they encourage people to share their thoughts and ideas with them, no matter how crazy or unrealistic these might seem.

4. They use the power of touch.

This kind of nonsexual touch can be very powerful since it can increase compliance, it can influence behavior and it can make the person doing the touching friendlier and more approachable.

5. They Always pass the waiter test.

You know what they say: if you want to know how a person really treats people, just take them to lunch. Charming people treat everyone the same; they are Always kind, respectful and polite.

6. They are great with names.

Charming people are great with names and they even remember small details about others. You Always feel good with them since they Always pay you attention, they make you feel important and they are really listening to what you are telling them.

7. They ask open-ended questions.

Since charming people are really interested in what you are saying and they Always try to get to know you better, they often ask open-ended questions, so they can get you to talk openly about yourself.

Tell us if you know any other habits of genuinely charming people in the comment section!

Love,

Lily~Rose and Kiki~Jane

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